Teaching a horse to move forward and give

A horse that’s confident and relaxed thinks on a very simple level.

When you tap your horse on the rump or touch him with your leg or spur, he moves forward and the tapping, leg or spur stops.

Your horse soon learns how to make you stop tapping or spurring – just move forward and the pressure (tapping, leg or spur) is removed.

Simple and uncomplicated.

Timing is crucial. If the rider doesn’t relieve the pressure immediately the horse moves forward, the horse will be confused.

He’ll look for another way to relieve the pressure. It may be to kick up, buck or pull the reins and run faster.

When a horse does these things, most riders are busy hanging on and can’t use their legs or spur, so the immediate result for the horse is relief of pressure.

Horses soon learn to relieve unpleasantness and pressure by using these behaviours – just kick up, buck or run off and pressure is relieved.

Such a horse is not naughty, disrespectful or bad, he’s just doing what he’s been taught.

Simple and uncomplicated.

Though no one means to teach their horse such things, it’s very easy for unwanted behaviours to become ingrained.

When such a horse is ridden away from the barn, he resists in the manner he’s learned.

He kicks up or bucks, because he knows this will relieve pressure from his rider.

Immediately the pressure is relieved, the horse turns and makes a run for home, or tears off to see other horses in the paddock or does whatever else he wants to do.

This may go on for years and some horses become very good at finding ways to relieve pressure.

The theory of overcoming these behaviours is extremely simple.

However, being able to carry out the theory is not so simple.

I’ve ridden hundreds of horses who’d learned to resist when they were asked to move forward and give.

I ask such a horse to move forward by touching him lightly with a blunt spur.

All he has to do is move forward in the manner I ask and the spur goes away.

When the horse resists, I keep the same light touch.

I don’t punish him or thump him with the spur.

Immediately he moves forward in the manner I want, I take the spur away. T

he horse gets rid of the spur by moving forward in the manner I want, not by resisting.

If a horse has been resisting for months or years, he won’t immediately get the idea.

I let him relax for a while, then again ask him to move forward by touching him lightly with the blunt spur.

If I’m consistent, it’s not long before the horse understands to move forward instead of resisting.

I don’t expect any horse to be perfect in one lesson.

It will take weeks or months to overcome this behaviour.

It’s something that needs to be worked on every time the horse is ridden.

As he learns to move forward and give, he’ll start to relax and move more evenly.

He’ll learn to find relief in a simple and logical manner.

Though horse problems aren’t easy to overcome, the theory of horse training is very simple.

And uncomplicated.

Learn more here

Book & Online Video Clinics


The ultimate guide to training and understanding your horse – using co-operation and trust.

Step-by-step instruction for everything you’ve ever dreamed of being able to do with your horse

Over 300 colour photographs across 224 in-depth pages

Comprehensive guidance on leg handling, trailer loading, riding and leading problems

Free shipping worldwide

Instant access in PDF or classic hard-cover


A step-by-step approach to change your horse's attitude from confrontation to co-operation without fear, fight or force.

19 video based lessons

Over 6 hours of training

Unlimited streaming access

Stream online on any device

Starting a Horse Under Saddle Online Clinic

See how every horse should be started under saddle. No chasing, no bucking no fighting.

16 video based lessons

Over 7 hours of video training

Unlimited streaming access

Stream online on any device


If you breed a foal, it’s your responsibility to take care of him from day one.

14 video based lessons

Over 6 hours of training

Unlimited streaming access

Stream online on any device